I just bought a Lipseys, 45lc/acp, SS, 4.63 barrel. I know it is the medium frame and cannot use the hot loads. I see here that a good standard load is 255 gr lead over 8.0 Unique. Just how hot a load is that? I want some good non-punishing target loads. Is this what I am looking for or do I need to load a little lighter? I am older, closer to 70 than 60 and don't want to be beat up enjoying the shooting sport. I like the big bores, but in milder loads. So, 255 over 8 or someone have something that might be better for target? thx triker