after taking mine apart again, roylt is right. i remembered when i was installing the grip, the spring slipped out of it's grove and i had put it back in incorectly and it did interfere with the new grip and that's when i figured the problem was with the grip......after all, it couldn't be with me......... :roll:
here is the spring out of the frame slot....
the problem was this part of the spring was in the frame grove......
this is the part of the spring that should be in the grove......
this is what it should look like...........
as for the pin being able to work it's way out, i put the side of the grip that i modified on and pushed the pin until it touched the grip.
the pin did not come all the way out but enough of it did so the ejector wiggled a little bit and that's not good under the pressure of cycling.
the good news is it is and easy fix to get the gun right and a new grip is only $20........thx roylt for pointing out that something was wrong and that our mods to the grips could infact cause a malfunction.