I think the issue here is the fact that many big box stores that sell more than just firearms have adopted a policy of carrying a firearm out of the store as means of promoting safety & reducing liability.
It's not the same as going to a gun shop where the main business is firearms & in general,,, most are already carrying, or expect people to be carrying.
Think about it,,, gun shops are not places that too many thugs want to attempt a robbery. Yet,,, just last night or the night before,,, on my local news,,, a guy already suspected in the robbery of one Wally World,, held up another one.
Big box stores have a different type of customer vs, a specialty shop like a gun shop. In the big box stores,,, where CCW is legal,,,out of sight means out of mind. But in a gun shop,,, in sight & in mind.
Liberal soccer moms are the same types that stick their heads in the sand & ignore logical, educated info about firearms. They also do not think the people around them in wally world are carrying firearms. They envision knuckle dragging, white hooded, gangster rapping, shady looking folks as the ones with guns. Not the average working guy or that well dressed lady, or the doctor or,,,,,,,,!
And the long running attitude of people being offended by firearms & their owners has been one of the tools the media started many years ago to demonize us & try to control us. If we are made to feel bad about firearms,,, we won't do so, or even promote the idea.
Offensive? Absolutely.
So, who do we blame?
First,,, the media which is run by liberal minded folks who want to take away our rights. Add in the anti-freedom politicians who push the agenda of demonizing guns & gun owners. And NOT to make this political,,, I blame lawyers.
Lawyers are the ones who write & draft laws. They are also the ones who look at any opportunity to SUE somebody for any possible reason they can think of. Spill your ordered hot coffee on your lap? Sue them for making it too hot.
Lawyers create work & jobs for lawyers by writing laws.
It didn't happen overnight. Common sense used to prevail. If a person had sex with a woman, we all knew what that meant. Billy boy claimed it wasn't sex with Monica. Guess who allowed him his free pass? The liberal media.
For a long time,,, the folks who want to control us have been chipping away at anything they can to destroy our rights & make us, as gun owners feel as if we are bad just for being a gun owner.
Offensive? You betcha!
But it's been those little things that they chipped away at that have grown into such stupidity. We used to raise our kids in homes with firearms & we taught them gun safety. Taboo to them now.
We used to spank our kids when they mis-behaved. Taboo now (if you get caught.) We used to teach kids respect for our elders, our neighbors, the cops, etc. Nope,,, kids are not taught that much anymore.
In short,, many people live in a rose colored world & want everyone else to see what they see & they want it to be a utopia of life.
Reality is not like that. BUT,,,,,,, they have done a lot of damage because of their attitudes.
Lawsuits are such a way of life now that it's obscene.
Thugs are everywhere just waiting for an opportunity.
As a gun owner I too find it offensive when anybody tries to make me feel as if I'm a bad person for carrying a gun or supporting freedom.
Yesterday was Veterans Day. Most of America honored us & supported us. yet, there were people who dislike Vets. They hate war. They do not want anybody to be fighting. But the sad reality, that they refuse to believe is that there is evil in the world. That there are too many different attitudes to where it will never be a utopia where we all live in peace & harmony. Heck,,, here on this Forum I've seen some SERIOUS differences of opinions & as such, even here some people just can not like each other. Greed, power, dominance are all things that drive some people.
So what does all this have to do with the OP?
Attitudes & lawyers.
Lawyers want to sue, and the attitude is in the public domain,, a business has to do so many things to try & prevent lawsuits that they border on the ridiculous.
So what do we do to change this?
We go to any business where we spend our money, such as restaurants & such that allow CCW or open carry. We take a few minutes to seek out a manager & politely thank them for being Freedom supporters. Don't get into a political discussion, just be polite & say things like; "I want to thank you for supporting Freedom by not posting your business against the lawfull carry of firearms." Explain to them how you as well as many Freedom loving Americans prefer to spend our money in places that support our Freedoms.
By using the phrase "freedom" vs gun owners,,, it will remove the negativity that they have been conditioned to.
Use the same tactics of selected words that have been used to demonize us.
Even liberals have a hard time arguing the word freedom because that's the same word they use against us.
Get creative & use the very language they use against them.
And everytime a lawyer wants to sue,,, (something we can't stop until we reduce the number of lawyers & make them accountable for junk lawsuits,) get another lawyer to point out the stupidity of the suit, & use the same words against them. I know it'll take a lot longer than my time left here on earth,,, but if we start it,,, others will follow.
We can also combat it by attacking the media with the internet & using the very same arguments. Use the term Freedom, use the same arguments they use against us by turning their own disagreement against them.
When someone says; "I see his gun,,, it scares me" to a store manager, a cop or whoever,,, respond by saying; "I see unarmed people at schools & it scares me knowing those children are not protected." Tell them; "I'm scared of people not owning firearms to protect our nation."
Big box stores & their policies offensive? Yes.
But we can fight back.