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Condor1970

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As I have stated in a few other threads, after about 20 years, I finally got around to buying the revolver I have always wanted.

A Stainless 5" Ruger GP100, with deluxe rosewood grips. Gave it a trigger job, and a set of Wolf springs, 10# hammer, and 8# trigger.

Thing is, even though I have always wanted one in my collection, I needed an excuse to get it, since I own so many other side-arms, all semi-auto.

Well, I decided to buy it for my wife as a Valentines Day gift. The problem is that she knows nothing about guns, and is deathly afraid of them, being from Calgary Canada. She's never fired or even held a firearm before. I of course, grew up on a Wisconsin dairy farm, was in the Navy for 10years, and have handled firearms my whole life. It's second nature to me. It was obvious she needed "proper" training. I sat down and taught her the basic parts of the revolver at the kitchen table, and I have been blessed with having a good friend who is a certified instructor. After asking him to give her some actual lessons at the range, he of course said he would teach her for free. To keep it best for her, I did not attend the range on these days. She went while I was at work. I told her she needs to do this without me there, so she can concentrate on her lesson, and not be disrupted. Well, after only 2 lessons she is getting very comfortable properly handling, loading, and using this new beauty.

The best part, is she is already calling this her gun. Yeah, seriously. She calls me up at work, and says, "Hon, I open the safe but where's my gun? Which shelf is it on?" Sweetest words out of her mouth in years. :mrgreen:

Well, after her lesson, she was very grateful, so she bought my buddy a bottle of bourbon. He of course will give her as many lessons as she feels she needs.


Here's a pic today of her second lesson. Shooting some light loaded Freedom Munitions 125gr HP's in 38sp. After she shoots these for a while, I'll load up some hotter rounds, eventually loading some defensive stuff for her to know what a real 357 is like.

Her target was #5 at 10 yards.


 
OUTSTANDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As a long time Women On Target instructor, I APPLAUD you for having someone else teach her. AND for you not being there. We do "women only" clinics & remove the male figures from the ladies lives. It removes any possible stresses their male "friends" may induce.

My only thoughts would have been to have her start with a 22 revolver before moving up to a centerfire revolver. Even if only for a few cylinders full. Noise, & recoil are the two things that can be scary to anybody who has never fired a handgun before. BUT, once they try a 22, then moving up is EASY compared to starting a bit bigger.

Now you need to have her try a few other guns too. But let your instructor friend do the initial introduction.

Oh, now you have more excuses to buy more guns.
 
contender said:
OUTSTANDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As a long time Women On Target instructor, I APPLAUD you for having someone else teach her. AND for you not being there. We do "women only" clinics & remove the male figures from the ladies lives. It removes any possible stresses their male "friends" may induce.

My only thoughts would have been to have her start with a 22 revolver before moving up to a centerfire revolver. Even if only for a few cylinders full. Noise, & recoil are the two things that can be scary to anybody who has never fired a handgun before. BUT, once they try a 22, then moving up is EASY compared to starting a bit bigger.

Now you need to have her try a few other guns too. But let your instructor friend do the initial introduction.

Oh, now you have more excuses to buy more guns.

Actually, she did start with the instructors 22lr Ruger Bearcat. Then, she moved up to the Buckmark to see the difference in how a semi-auto works. Then, she got a crack at her friends CZ-75 with a 22 conversion kit. The final stage was moving the targets back a few more yards, and getting used to the GP100 with 38sp rounds.

Once she is used to running the 38's, then I will introduce her to a few hotter defensive loads so she is aware of what a 357 can really do when needed in a defensive situation.



 
Yeah I bet he will give her all the lessons she wants for free and it may not be only in shooting. :wink: :lol:
 
6gun, that was uncalled for.
To insinuate that a friend who has done nothing but help a lady, getting her involved in shooting, the BEST way possible is just wrong.
I think an apology is in order. PERIOD!

Condor 1970, to hear that she did start with a 22 & then moved up etc shows you have a GOOD instructor & friend. I have been doing such stuff for a long time & the satisfaction I get is seeing the ladies become more involved in the shooting sports.
Just a few weeks ago, we had our local NRA Fundraiser event. We actually had an entire table of JUST ladies from our Women On Target clinics. Plus we had a second table with several of them as well.
Girls & shooting ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!

You keep it up & keep a smile on her face. Buy another gun, let her try others, find what SHE wants, (if not the GP she already enjoys.)
 
contender said:
6gun, that was uncalled for.
To insinuate that a friend who has done nothing but help a lady, getting her involved in shooting, the BEST way possible is just wrong.
I think an apology is in order. PERIOD!

My thoughts exactly.

Congrats Condor. My wife has been my shooting partner now for 32+ years. It is great having my "best friend" enjoy the same things I do.

Dan
 
Thanks for all the kind remarks. Yes, she plans to get out, and shoot at least a couple times a month to stay proficient. I don't think she's too interested in shooting competitively. At least not now. However, she did spend the whole night talking about it, and was very excited about all the fun she had. If anything, it will be nice for her to get out a couple times a month just to have fun. Also, I can rest easier, knowing she can at least defend herself if the unthinkable should happen when she is at home alone.
 
Most of the ladies I deal with really are not into competition. But they DO enjoy "fun" shooting. Try this;
Start saving plastic soda bottles, re-fill with water, use as reactive targets. Use old produce, biodegradable clay shotgun targets, cheap, out of date cans of beer or soda, etc. All these types of easy to use & clean up reactive targets allow for a LOT of fun shooting. Shake up old cans of soda or beer on a hot day & when hit, they can vaporize.
There are many types of things you can use as fun targets that react when hit. I have listened to many a giggle from a lady when something "blows up!"
 
6gun said:
Yeah I bet he will give her all the lessons she wants for free and it may not be only in shooting. :wink: :lol:

As Contender said, pretty crude and uncalled for remark. Moderators ought to send you packing for a while. Don
 
For the OP, I’ll chime in. Great job in getting your wife to swing from concern/fear of guns to enjoying them.

I’ve said forever that one woman who learns to enjoy firearms is worth 5 men. All too often when we try to interest women in shooting it’s just noise to them but they do listen to other women. Don
 
Condor1970 good job, your wife's smile says it all. Don't under-estimate the 38special with the right bullet out of a 5" barrel for self-defense. I think it is the perfect round and gun for home protection. It is what I carry and load for self-defense, although my GP is a 4". :D
 
One that I shot with for my Florida CC said, "I'm not a very good shot". My lady buddy was behind me on my range + said I'm glad you shot with her. Nice full tilt .357 mags. group. Jeeze Loesees (SP) I thought I claim my "Back" is acting up. But I couldn't.
 

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