Lost a son

45Colt_Man

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Greybull, WY USA
On the 20th of July our oldest son passed away. He went doing what he loved, spending time with his son. Chris was 37 years old and died of a massive heart attack while riding bicycles with his son Garret.

Chris has been a member of the Wyoming National Guard since 1998. Did two tours in Iraq and at the time of his death was a HIMARS Section Chief. He owned his own business WYO-Hydrographics and had an FFL. For the past three years he was employed as a Wyoming Veterans Outreach & Advocacy Program advocate, until state budget cuts terminated his job. He had just accepted a position as a Veterans Advocate with another agency and was scheduled to leave the following Sunday for training in Oklahoma.

He leaves behind his parents two older sisters and a younger brother, his son a wife and step-son.

We had a Memorial service for him last Saturday, and couldn't have asked for a better service. The Patriot Guard Riders posted 23 flag bearing members who stood in the 100 degree heat outside the funeral home. We had the same minister who married Chris and Emily do the officiating, followed by the Military Service. Major General Reiner of the Wyoming Military Department attended and participated. Chris was posthumously awarded a medal at the services. I think it was a meritorious service award but am not sure his wife has it.

This may have been a blessing in disguise as the autopsy found he also had kidney cancer along with his enlarged heart.

The night before Chris and Garret were here for their weekly Tuesday Taco night so we have memories of his last supper.

Thanks for letting me share this information, we will miss him greatly but have 37 years worth of pictures and memories to help us through it.

Dana

Edited to add

We live in a small community with only a weekly newspaper. The day Chris died the newspaper came out with an article on his Veterans Advocacy role and work he had been doing. Chris never got a chance to read it.
 
My sympathy and condolences to you, his mother and his siblings. The loss of a son or brother is always hard.

Lost my little brother ( the youngest of us three) in 2008 at 60 1/2 years of age.
 
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As I read the OP,,, my tears came freely as I see we lost a good soldier, a brother in arms, and obviously a great person.
You, your family, his family & all those that knew him have my prayers.
 
You raised him right, he made a difference in the world, and he left way too early. Too sad.

Praying for you and your family.
 
For the first time... in a long time... I thought about what the OP wrote.

It's just too hard not to weep...

My greatest sympathies...
 
It is just tearfully heart breaking to read your post, you will be in my prayers.
 
I am VERY sorry for you and your family. I almost lost my son and I KNOW what it did to me & him. You can be at piece knowing that you had a Good, Fair, Well Raised son. Bob
 
This really hits hard. A young man's life cut short. Your family and his family have my deepest sympathies. :cry:
 
I am so sorry for you loss. Praying for you & your family.
 
We pray for your son's soul, and to help ease your family's loss. Life is so fragile, and it can all be over in the blink of an eye.
 
He sounds like a great man who gave a lot in his short 37 years. Good bless him, you and all the family.
 
Hi,

Words fail at times like this, but it sounds like Chris packed two or three lifetimes into the short time he was allowed here. Prayers come for your whole family, Dana, that you will all find the strength to carry on without him the way he'd have wanted you to do if he were still here.

Rick C
 
What a man your son was. You raised him right, and he lived right. What an inspiration. The cancer treatments are so debilitating. Yes, better to go quickly. Still a loss like that at a young age can be devastating. My prayers are with you and your family.
gramps
 
Wyoming condolences. My son is 38, flying missions in Afghanistan.

We don't know the day nor the hour.
 
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. It was the nation that lost as well. What he was is a true testament to you and your wife. May the sorrows fade and the memories never.
 
May God Bless you and give you comfort and strength.............................The tears are still flowing.............Coogs.
 
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