Rugers do not generally get out of time, and are not nearly as fragile as S&W. If you slowly cock the hammer (gun empty please) the cylinder should lock into place with the cylinder stop before or at least by the time the hammer reaches full cock and is caught by the trigger. This is for double action guns. It can be your loads or a lot of things, not all of them not normal. Revolvers fired with lead bullets need to be cleaned. If they are hot loads or even light loads with fast burning powders, some of the lead vaporizes and you will get a lead deposit no matter what you do. Undersize bullets will make it worse.
Overly tight throats MAKE undersize bullets when you fire them, so that CAN be an issue. Try cleaning it after each session, and a gentle use of a wire (brass or SS if you are REAL careful on blued gun) brush will normally brush off the lead. The fire rings are going to be there so don't worry about them.
Louie