Gen Z soft life trend?

Working hard to buy the big house that you're never in for your family that you never see. Gotta save that money for retirement when you'll be too old and infirm to enjoy your savings. Eat your meals at your desk because you have to work. Drink your coffee on the run because you have to work.
 
As the old saying goes, “Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times.”

Created by people like my father who worked his entire life without having an interest in anything other than work, work, work. He mocked people who had hobbies saying "They should be working." When he finally retired, he found that he had nothing to do.
 
I have two Gen Z kids....the oldest of the two, my Step Son prefers to take the easiest and cleanest route possible. He was never one to break a sweat by getting his hands dirty or using physical strength. Never wanted to be involved with outdoors/hunting/fishing etc....Assigning him chores resulted in half ass attempts of the most simple of things. He hates the outdoors and spent most of his teenage years in his room in front of a monitor. He was hooked (still is) on video games. He's a computer geek. He wasn't a loner, had friends...mostly communicated with via a gaming headset. He married another gamer/computer geek. He knew his Groomsmen for years....but never met them in person until a couple days before the wedding. They were mostly Canadians. He relies on others for anything physical. When he bought a house I bought him a lawn mower and combo kit. But he relies on his Father in Law to use them when needed. I bought him a mechanics tool set for Christmas. A big contrast to his usual gifts of bobble head figures of movie characters and gaming stuff. That said, he is only a few years out of college and making a good salary.

My youngest Gen Z is nothing like his older Step Brother. He was always outside, in the woods, getting dirty, excelled at physical things like yardwork and sports from a early age. He sometimes intentionally takes the hard path so he can get a work out. Example being a few years back we took down several 100ft tall trees. He was right there prepping saws, limbing, dragging, bucking and hauling the pieces down to the splitter. Splitter went down. As I was tinkering with it he walked to the shed, grabbed axes, sledges and splitting wedges and got busy. That was after a long week of summer two a day football camp/practice. Christmas and Birthdays once he became a teenager he pretty much asked for tools, ATV gear, hunting/fishing gear. He's currently in the Navy enjoying Seabee life and excited to deploy.

Wife is Gen X....I'm a Boomer......maybe that's the difference....lol
 
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Created by people like my father who worked his entire life without having an interest in anything other than work, work, work. He mocked people who had hobbies saying "They should be working." When he finally retired, he found that he had nothing to do.
Sorry your life was so terrible. My dad also quoted that to me. Dad did work hard. But he always made time for family and fun.

When he passed he had raised four upstanding kids who raised good kids. His house was paid for (large 5 bedroom, 3 bath with pool). And he and mom enjoyed traveling in his Chevy pickup and Road Ranger trailer.

It ain't the situation it's the people in the situation.
 
My Dad was a farmer. He was friendly and enjoyed meeting and talking to people, but that was mostly at church. He was happiest just being on his farm and being outside and watching nature. One day we were fixing a water gap fence at a creek and he just stopped, stood up and was looking around at the birds and his cattle and just soaking up nature and he looked at me and said "why would I ever want to be anywhere else, nothing can compare to this"? He lived to be 93 and succumbed to dementia.
 
Read the whole article and it was more than just the title. According to the writer, most of the ones she spoke to were striving for a balance, and knew they had to work to live, as opposed to living to work. Really not much different from most folks (with the exception here of Yawarski's dad). All of us have ways we deal with the stress of earning a living every day, some with relaxing, some with exercising or playing rough, some with hobbies. As most generations do (us baby boomers included) they are just putting a name to something so they can say they invented it.
 
The truth is usually somewhere in the middle. I am not reading all that by the way. I have kids that are Gen Z. Don't need the education from the outside.
Same here. I live the Gen Z life through my daughter and her friends.

One thing I will say is I can’t stand the term “aesthetic” and the way Gen Z, or any generation for that matter wants a “certain aesthetic.” It drives me nuts.

So right now they are juniors in high school. Will she and her coherent work hard later in life? I’m sure they will. But right now they are lazy teenagers. I can remember being a lazy teenager, as I’m sure my dad born in 1932 was a lazy teenager.

Something’s never change.
 
Dad did work hard. But he always made time for family and fun.
My Father was always working. As an executive he travelled extensively. He never came to any sporting events or such. He did go to our Graduations and my older Brother's commissioning ceremony (Army). The only time I recall him being "social" was when I was very young, late 60's when we'd visit relatives. That consisted of the Uncles sitting at a picnic table consuming an incredible amount of beer. When we moved from there it all stopped. He worked his way up the corporate ladder and every other advancement brought a move until we settled in MD where his company Corp offices were located. Most social I ever was with him as a youth was watching The Rockford Files, heavyweight boxing, or shooting pool in the basement once in awhile. Neighbors always invited him over, but he never once accepted. My Mother could talk to anyone and kept track of her friends wherever we were.

Partially. I have my own goofiness.
Self awareness is a big part of obtaining ones success...whatever they deem that to be...

I can remember being a lazy teenager, as I’m sure my dad born in 1932 was a lazy teenager.

I remember attempting to be a lazy teenager.....you only take one backhand to the melon and that is pretty much the end of laziness and your chores were soon completed timely without being asked to do them. My Father was far from lazy in his youth working on the docks of Liverpool England as a child, during The Blitz. It ran them out of there eventually. His teen years were spent here in the States digging ditches and working at a gas station until he enlisted in the Army.
 
Just stole this from another message board, and it fits perfectly here:

Generation Z is hitting the work force, and these young whipper snappers have uncovered some of the most brilliant life hacks you can imagine. Here are eight of their most ingenious discoveries:

  1. DIY Uber: Want to know how to always have an Uber driver ready the moment you are? Try the DIY Uber hack, where you get in a car's driver seat and use the pedals and steering wheel to take yourself places. Hello, freedom.
  2. Night Nap: A night nap is where you lie down at night in a dark room and sleep for like eight hours. You'll be amazed how your energy levels will soar.
  3. Live Voice Texting: It's like texting, but you speak into a phone and the other person literally hears the things you would have texted. Insane.
  4. Doordash But To Stay: Enjoy your favorite restaurant's amazing food, but you actually sit inside the restaurant and eat. Sweet!
  5. Instagram In Real Life: For this sweet hack, you meet actual people in real life and spend time with them. Did we just blow your mind?
  6. Credit Doubler: Want to know the secret to amazing credit? Simply pay the amount requested on bills that come in the mail, and watch your credit score skyrocket.
  7. Permanent AirBnB: Gen Z has cracked the code -- you save up money and then buy a house in an affordable location. It's like having an AirBnB, but forever. Sick!
  8. Month Money: Get money deposited in your bank account literally every month by acquiring a useful skill and then getting other people to pay you to work. Watch those dollars roll in.

Thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world, Gen Z.
 
I have two Gen Z kids....
I have four Gen Z kids. They are all similar and all very different.
Wife is Gen X....I'm a Boomer......maybe that's the difference....lol
Oh dear!:LOL:
So right now they are juniors in high school. Will she and her coherent work hard later in life? I’m sure they will. But right now they are lazy teenagers. I can remember being a lazy teenager, as I’m sure my dad born in 1932 was a lazy teenager.
I have a sophomore and a senior so they average to be one junior. The oldest graduated TWU Magna Cum Laude already and #2 is set to graduate this spring at whatever they changed the name of East Texas State University/Texas A&M Commerce/East Texas A&M University but he's gonna go get a Masters Degree it seems.
 
I have four Gen Z kids. They are all similar and all very different.

I also have two Gen Y/Millennials......my oldest Daughters....born 1990 and 1995....reverse scenario compared to the Gen Z Sons.....the oldest Gen Y is the go getter and the youngest is the one who doesn't put out much effort to do much of anything but expects everything in return (also became very liberal). But I love them all the same....a couple just piss me off more than the others.
 
When did all of the Gen Whatever stuff start? Seems like a pretty useless differentiation.
Ok boomer 😀

But no I don’t really know. Was it the 30’s with the “silent generation?”

Not sure if it’s well known but the OK Boomer started with the younger female politician in New Zeland calling out some old white guy for being a jerk.
 
I remember attempting to be a lazy teenager.....you only take one backhand to the melon and that is pretty much the end of laziness and your chores were soon completed timely without being asked to do them.
You got a backhand? We got belts, and fists.....until we fought back.
 
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My folks were called The Greatest Generation. But I can't remember hearing that until the 90's, maybe later.

Boomers were never referred to as the boomer generation just boomers. And that was solely based on the fact that our parents, post WWII created a population boom. But the boom wasn't just more kids, it's that fewer of us died in infancy and childhood. Modern medicine and vaccines were as much responsible for the baby boom as overly reproductive parents.
 
I'm helping several Gen Z people improve their job skills and getting them involved with the skilled trades. One of the best is working as a 2nd Class Engineer and going to school for his 1st Class license. He works overtime regularly and spent New Years Eve working from 3pm to 7am this morning. He is going back to work at 3pm for another 16 hour shift. There are some young people with a great work ethic who are willing to learn and become successful. He is one of them
 
Working hard to buy the big house that you're never in for your family that you never see. Gotta save that money for retirement when you'll be too old and infirm to enjoy your savings. Eat your meals at your desk because you have to work. Drink your coffee on the run because you have to work.
I've spent most working days eating while driving between jobs... in fact most of the time in the Spring though Fall when I'm wearing shorts I would not even stop to pee. .... had a jar in the work van.... you do have to be a little coordinated to manage this while driving.... just like with cell phones there probably aught to be a law.

Now my signature line below from J.B. is my goal.
 
I'm helping several Gen Z people improve their job skills and getting them involved with the skilled trades. One of the best is working as a 2nd Class Engineer and going to school for his 1st Class license. He works overtime regularly and spent New Years Eve working from 3pm to 7am this morning. He is going back to work at 3pm for another 16 hour shift. There are some young people with a great work ethic who are willing to learn and become successful. He is one of them
It’s great what you are doing and how you help.

Thanks for pointing out that not all young people fit into the defined lines of their generation.
 
You got a backhand? We got belts, and fists.....until we fought back.

My Mother had a wooden paddle. My six was tanned more than a few times.....she broke it on my older Brother. After that she used a old leather belt that after so much use started to fray on the end. She had different reasonings behind her disciplining...usually for saying or doing something wrong. My Father's was if you didn't do something as directed or in a timely manner...or the worst, if we back talked him or my Mother. Today it would be labeled as child abuse. I think it taught me and my Brother some life lessons about levels of discipline.

In my opinion, todays Gen Z is mostly labeled as lazy, spoiled and entitled because they were not held accountable. There is some good that comes from disciplinary action....a lot of todays youth could use a kick in azz.
 

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