"Well I'm a lightweight and have been shooting guns for the last 40 years. It's just a little too powerful a round for me to handle."
Understood.
And you have a valid point. Many people just don't care for,, or feel comfortable with shooting more powerful ammo.
But I've also seen quite a few who had a wrong grip, posture or whatever that caused more felt recoil than necessary. Without seeing you shoot,, I can NOT say that's why a .44 mag about knocked you out of the stall. I was just trying to point out that improper shooting techniques can cause issues,,that can be avoided. Don't want anyone hurt by such stuff.
Your posting brought to mind the idiots who put a .44 mag in the hands of a new, young, female, or whatever type w/o proper instruction,, and laugh when it kicks the fire outta them. Heck,, even my own Miss Penny had a bad experience when her 1st hubby had her shoot a gun that kicked her hard. So,, when she finally got around to asking me to teach her to shoot,, we went slow,, using very mild .38's (her demand,, as she was scared of "magnum" anything,) in a Security-Six .357 mag. After several sessions,, and she discovered she could shoot,, and got her posture, stance, gripping, sight alignment, trigger control etc all doing good,, I slipped in a .357 mag round. She fired a couple of 38's, fired the magnum, then fired another .38. She stopped & said; "Hey,, one of those sounded funny!" I smiled & said,, "You didn't feel anything different?" She said,, well, I don't think so. I informed her of how one round was an actual .357 Mag. She realized her fear was unfounded, and asked me to load up some more. Before I did,, I explained how proper instruction & training up to that point had mitigated felt recoil. She realized how her idiot ex-hubby had once again, treated her badly.
Bad habits, such as improper gripping, bad stance, poor posture, improper fit of a gun, poor trigger control, all can have a negative effect. And even worse,, if you have a bad habit AND spend a lot of time duplicating that bad technique,, you develop a motor memory skill that is hard to re-train your brain against. Ask me how I know,,,,,,!
My posting is not directed at larry8,, but mostly hoping to help anybody who may feel they can't handle heavier recoiling handguns etc,, or even worse,, have a bad experience & wish to overcome it. Just pointing out that anyone can have issues,, but most can be overcome.