Empty House again

Aqualung

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It's been awhile since I posted anything significant here, as I'm only checking in and lurking most days.

Well, it's not been a good few months for us in the Aqualung family.

We never had kids, going for the four legged variety of the feline persuasion.

Well, we lost Daisy on the day after Thanksgiving. She'd been having some issues, but bouncing back...the proverbial trooper. For years, she held off diabetes, taking her insulin shots twice a day without complaint. Then, near the end, she seemed to have beaten it because we'd had to stop giving it to her completely.

But she'd began losing her appetite and started slowing down and was breathing really hard. Thanksgiving week, she really pretty much stopped eating. My wife was at her parents' in Maryland and I told her I was taking Daisy to the vet on Friday. She came up and got home just as we were set to go for the appointment.

At the appointment, the x-rays showed that our little girl's lungs we full of fluids and her heart was enlarged. There was nothing that could be done that could have made her better. We made the hard choice and she was gone at 4:30.

Daisy - Our little girl
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That left her brother, Sarge.

He was helping us all cope with the loss. We comforted each other and he kept the emptiness filled.

Then, almost two months to the day (one day short), from Daisy's passing, we lost Sarge...suddenly, unexpectedly and tragically.

He'd been playing with his catnip mouse, like normal. He suddenly jumped up like he startled himself (not unusual), then ran. He hit the leg of a chair we have in the living room and then bolted for the kitchen. My wife got up and went into him to see if he was ok or if he'd hurt himself on the chair leg. She found him hunched on the floor and when she picked him up, he stiffened and cried out. By that time I got there and he was fading, right in my wife's arms. He stopped breathing and that was it...in less than two minutes, he went from playing with his toy and being our loveable, goofy Sarge, to gone. To say we are absolutely devastated is an understatement.

Our boy, Sarge:
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They loved to help:
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Along with the fact that we lost my wife's sister in July, it's been a pretty crappy 12 months.

Hanging in there, but with some big holes in our hearts.

Aqualung
 
Sadly, my wife and I understand...
Soon, we are going to lose Mr. McCloud, 18 years old and named after the Northern California lumber camp where my wife's Greek family originally settled. He's been an intrinsic part of our family since kittenhood, and his time is drawing nigh...
Our hearts go out to you and yours. Best wishes for heart's ease.

Jeff
 
As I sit here,,, typing through the cloudy eyes,, one of our 4 felines is at my arm,, "Miss Ruger" who was found the very first day of the very first Ruger Forum East Coast Gathering. When Miss Penny lost her baby of 17 plus years,, (born in her lap & died in her arms) over a year & half ago,, I swear he told one of the others we have to "Take care of Momma!" Before he passed,, Miss Patches, started staying close to Penny. Now,, she is momma's baby,, and has helped fill the ache in her heart.
Those who have visited us during the Gathering have been able to meet all these ladies. To say we understand,, AND feel your pain is an understatement.
You have my sincerest condolences.
 
I can feel the pain. In short order we went from 5 to 1. That one, Slick, my 14 year old buddy, just jumped off my lap to go stuff his face. He is POed because I won't let him go outside. Not at 11:20 pm.
 
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Even as I sit here reading this,; AT my elbow id MISSY Kitty who is now 14 and has been our pet since a kitten abandoned at the apartments where Ashley and I lived; She is purring loudly and likes her chin rubbed noow and then and is in the habit of demanding LOUDLY to be fed. Outside waiting to come in is Jessie Girl the Chow-Lab-Shepard who was dumped in front of our place in 2009 at 6 months of age; Now my Constant car companion in the right front seat wherever I go and my bedroom guardian at night.
Love'm BOTH.
 
We have “Ruby baby”. She just turned 11. She is MY cat, no matter what my wife says....seriously we love her to death. Can’t think of the day in the future when she is not with us. My condolences....
 
Condolences sir. Dog owner here and I understand your loss.
They are no doubt family.
 
No more pets for us.... the loss is just too great...
Condolences,
J.
 
Sorry about your two cats.

We lost our cat of 19 a few years ago. He is still missed and still gets talked about. In fact, we found a cement garden statue which looks surprisingly like him. He sits out in the front garden and watches us come and go.

We now have another cat. She insists on sleeping up by my head...every night... They grow on you, and I'm sure when it's her time, I'll miss having her bother me when I'm asleep.
 
Sorry for the loss of your cat family. I'm a dog guy but I certainly knows how it hurts. I hadn't cried for years but I cried for my previous dog when he passed. Very hard on me. Now this one is getting up there and big dogs don't live as long as cats.
 
Thanks for all your warm thoughts.

We're content in the fact that it hurts so much because we did it right...if we were nonchalant about losing them, we would have been doing something wrong.

Sarge used to sleep between my legs almost every night. When it was warm, he curled up with his head on my left ankle. When it was cooler, he snuggled all the way up to my groin.

I'm only just getting used to not having him there...the first few nights, I couldn't sleep at all.

On the times I worked at home, they "helped" me. Both have sent Skype messages of "sydtdgdbcjisoenfhhdkskw" to my coworkers and even to my counterparts in the UK when they would stroll across the keyboard.

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Sarge would jump up on the back of my chair and snore away in my ear.

Now, I'm mandatory working from home and it's just not the same.

Hug your furry friends a little tighter for us and thank you again.

Gary
Aqualung
 
I"m sorry you lost your babies....we have a 14 yr old cat...Roxie....who manages to put up with our 2 mini aussies....BayLee...1 yr....and River 3 mos....I lost my best baby girl Jazzz in November...she was 11...she was large...a newfie...and very much in charge...and one serious Daddy's girl....I miss her every moment of every day...I understand how this feels....and I'm sorry you have that hole in your heart....
 

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