All of the Ruger SA hammers and triggers work together without issue, so you can combine bisley hammers with standard triggers and standard hammers with bisley triggers, without issue.
As you've seen, you have to reduce the radius of the "butt" of the Bisley hammer to get it to fit into the plow handle grip frame.
The Bisley trigger, or your grip frame, must also be altered to fit a bisley trigger into a plow handle grip frame. The "nose" of the bisley trigger is longer than that of the standard trigger. The "typical mod" is to grind about an extra 1/8" relief into the front of the hole in the grip frame. Another option, my favored option, is to grind about 1/8" off of the nose of the trigger.
I like the bisley trigger over the standard due to the deeper curled radius on the trigger. The mid-trigger position is exactly the same as the standard (i.e. pull is the same), but the tip and nose of the trigger are longer, giving it more curl. FOR MY FINGER, I feel like it helps my finger stay centered on the trigger to pull BACK instead of sliding UP. I often feel like my finger is slipping upward and pressing against the bottom of the cylinder frame (ok, so top of the grip frame, but you get the idea). Other fellas like the straighter standard trigger.