The K-frame S&W 357s do have known issues with hot 125gr loads. It is not a universal given that any particular gun will have problems, but they are documented to have had cracked forcing cones from using those loadings.
If it has been a problem for any of the Security series, it must be a really rare phenomenon, because it is something that is scarcely discussed if ever, and they have been around a long time. I think that's one of the things that gave the Ruger 357s a legendary sense of "toughness" compared to the S&W. The only thing I might do is be sure to clean out the barrel and forcing cone well if you have been shooting lead before you use them, just in case there is a bit of buildup.
I wouldn't hesitate to use them in any good condition Security Six revolver (or 357 SP101 for that matter) or the Model 66. Especially only 400 of them. Maybe if you had and intended to shoot 40,000 you might reconsider. I suspect more than 400 were fired in the Model 66s before any problems were ever noticed. But having the option to choose, and you don't really need to, then why bother with it? Use them in the Ruger and get something else for the Smith. Or do what folks did 30 years ago and fire enough in the Smith to determine POI and performance, shoot 38s or heavier 357s in it for practice, and use them for when/if you need the extra power.