Hi,
For "how fast is my powder" questions, you need a burn rate chart. Hodgdon's has one here: http://www.hodgdon.com/burn-rate.html
There you'll see that Rel15 is just a touch slower than the 4895s, which have been good choices in the '06 and .308 for target use for a long time. It's worked well for me in a 22" barrel using 150 gr bullets in my '06. I don't have any 165-168 grainers, but suspect it might be a touch better with the extra 10% weight. However, minute of Bambi is my goal, so 2" groups are just fine in my book...
Now, I heard this a long time ago, and some of it's been documented, but not all: rifle powders are generally completely burned in a 16" barrel, shotgun powders in an 18", and no mention was made of pistol barrels. That part's probably pretty much spot on. The part that isn't so certain is what followed, that "fast" rifle powders are pretty well lit off and "maintaining" after about 8"-10" or so, while slower ones might take 12"-14" or so. What that means is while they're past their pressure peak they're still burning, and perhaps gaining a little velocity, very soon they're only maintaining enough pressure to keep the bullet moving at whatever velocity it's already achieved. Makes for fascinating barstool conversation but how much truth there is in that idea shall remain unproven!
However, the concept can be used by the handloader in tailoring his loads to a particular barrel. When the trigger's pulled, and things get moving, there's a harmonic wave that moves down the barrel as the bullet travels thru. The idea for greatest accuracy is to have the barrel in the same place as the sights say it is time after time. Not as easy to do in real life as on paper! I don't know how to "tune" that, but do know that the more accurate loads ARE more "in tune" than the less accurate ones. What that tells me is once you've found a load that works really well, similar loads using different powders in the same general burn rate may prove to work as well.
The interesting part of such conjecture comes when we remember every gun is a law unto itself regarding the loads it likes best, so some experimentation must be done. if you're already "close" with a particular recipe, as it sounds you are with the Rel15, sometimes moving the charge up or down a couple of tenths of a grain or so will wring that last little bit of accuracy the load's capable of out of it. Which means even more experimentation. A change in bullet may do something, but remember the general rule of faster powder-lighter bullet and slower powder-heavier bullet.
But that'll keep you busy while you're trying to locate the next powder to use in your "lab work." Have fun, remember to document all your work well, and maybe you can tighten those groups up even more...
Rick C