Shook me a bit

[badguybuster]

I guy I went to high school with died of brain cancer, 1 year (almost to the day) that his oldest daughter died of ovarian cancer. They are a deeply christian family, as are we.

We were not close but the news really shook me. I am about to turn 51 and have 3 children, by GOD's grace, under 10 years old.

It makes me wonder if I will see them grow up.

RIP Jason A.

 

[hittman]

 

[BULL'S-EYE]

Well, the older you get the more people that you've known will pass on. I've seen both my parents, and two of my four siblings go...Grandparents are all 30+ years gone, as well as scores of other relatives...And, several close friends. There's also been around two dozen (that I know of.) Of my High School classmates that have departed. Some I liked, others not so much. But, it's still kinda sad to see someone go before they've even reached retirement age.

 

[GasGuzzler]

Tough times around here. Condolences.

Well, the older you get the more people that you've known will pass on.

I have attended probably three or four dozen funerals in my 51+ years on Earth. I am the youngest of all my cousins on both sides. When I was little I asked my mom why we had to go to so many funerals. Her answer was that God blessed us with so many loved ones and most of them lived to be old.

 

[s4s4u]

My Dad is 91 years old. Still in good shape, cooks and shops for himself. Still drives. Bored as hell. Spends most of his time watching movies and facebook. All his friends are dead. I wish I was closer so I could spend more time with him, but we talk often. Living a long life may not be all it is cracked up to be

 

[Mike J]

I could write a list of the people I've known that are already gone. My parents, some aunts, some uncles, 2 of my cousins, people I've known from recovery, work, & churches. Most of them I liked, some I didn't. The thing is, all I know to do is trust God & keep walking. If I get wrapped up in fear, I won't be any good to anyone.

I am another that had my kids later in life. Now I am 60, My girls are 20 & 18 and are in their 3rd & first years of college. My son is 13, growing like a weed (he may dwarf me one day). I have a lot I need to try to teach him about how to think & get stuff done. I also need to try to make him think about what he better not do. I don't know how long I will last but all that means is I better make my time count. The rest is up to them.

 

[ex13F]

I've outlived all my friends and am waiting for the reunion. Until then I give thanks for each and every day that I stand in His grace.

 

[sfhogman]

My grandmother used to say,
"Man proposes, God disposes"
Smart lady.

 

[MaxMan]

The older I get the more I see those that didn't make it this far. I have two brothers, sometimes I get overwhelmed with the idea that one of us has to go first.

 

[blume357]

I had to tell you and the others here..... it is just a matter of time.....

 

[vito]

The only way to avoid having to deal with the death of relatives and friends is to die younger than everyone else. Not a solution that most would find appealing. In some ways I feel lucky, with both my older brother (87) and my younger sister (78) and myself (82) still around. When I was a kid I counted 17 first cousins, and now I am down to 3. And with the passing of a few of my longest friends, I am now at a stage of life where I have literally no close friends at all. But I just try to make the best of each day, enjoying when I can the antics of my grandchildren and my dogs. And in short doses during warmer weather I can find myself feeling like a young man again while I am out riding my motorcycle. These winter months are much harder.

 

[Jack Ryan]

I guy I went to high school with died of brain cancer, 1 year (almost to the day) that his oldest daughter died of ovarian cancer. They are a deeply christian family, as are we.

We were not close but the news really shook me. I am about to turn 51 and have 3 children, by GOD's grace, under 10 years old.

It makes me wonder if I will see them grow up.

RIP Jason A.

My condolences on your loss.

Some advice if I may, I was 51 one time, 2 kids and EVERYTHING was in turmoil. Lost my mom, my YOUNGER brother and my dad all with in a couple years. Mom and dad suffered several years with lingering illness you just don't get better from.

Morn the dead but pray for the living. Appreciate everyday like it is your last but live your life like the start of the biggest adventure you will ever take. God will take care of anything you can't handle. Just ask Him.

 

[arfmel]

My college girlfriend is now at death’s door from Alzheimers. 70 years old.

I lost my bride to a brain tumor fall 2022.

Hits hard. You just keep on keeping on.

 

[Paul B]

I guy I went to high school with died of brain cancer, 1 year (almost to the day) that his oldest daughter died of ovarian cancer. They are a deeply christian family, as are we.

We were not close but the news really shook me. I am about to turn 51 and have 3 children, by GOD's grace, under 10 years old.

It makes me wonder if I will see them grow up.

RIP Jason A.

Hell, I wouldn't mind being 51 again although the way things are going maybe being 87 has its benefits. I still have to figure out just what they are. Buck up guy, the odds are still in your favor.
Paul B.

 

[GasGuzzler]

The shift nurse convinced me to do even better with my health. I quit smoking, drinking, and fast food in September. With Dad having a stroke and his mom having two and her brothers both having strokes ... she said I need to get on the ball now. I don't even have a GP. The one I had I never went to was put in Federal prison for insurance fraud and I never got another. Time for a physical, bloodwork, and a prostate exam as I am 51. Gotta quit being ignorant.

I am halfway there.

 

[warren5421]

I lost my first wife when she was 39. You go on as 3 kids needed it. Second wife raised my 4 year old boy, the two girls were 13 and 16. I have lost a sister and a brother, a mother and father also, you just keep on. You are here for only a short time you go on living each day as if it is your last. Worrying won't help just live and love those kids as long as you can. Life can get bad and then better just live.

 

[Jakeintexas]

I guy I went to high school with died of brain cancer, 1 year (almost to the day) that his oldest daughter died of ovarian cancer. They are a deeply christian family, as are we.

We were not close but the news really shook me. I am about to turn 51 and have 3 children, by GOD's grace, under 10 years old.

It makes me wonder if I will see them grow up.

RIP Jason A.

Sorry for your loss. We only get so much time in this world so live each day well.

Mom had breast cancer (survived many years) and then developed uterine cancer. She had just beat it through some long chemo (and rang the bell) when she started acting kind of goofy. Glioblastoma. Odds of all three unrelated cancers is lower than the lottery. God wanted her back. That`s how this things work so live each day in faith with loved ones.