Some friendly advice: spend as much time as you can with your grandchild when they are young, and that doesn't cause grief to the parents. The time goes by so quickly, and then it is gone. I have 12 grandchildren now, and I found out that it was all too easy sometimes to let my own schedule get in the way, and it was also easy to think "oh well, I will see him/her soon anyway". As they grow up they may find that while they love you, they really want to spend time with friends and other activities and not with their grandparents. The years from about 2 until 12 seems to be about the best time that kids can appreciate the unconditional love and attention of a grandfather or grandmother. And you never know when their Mom or Dad will have to relocate for a new or better job or some other reason, and suddenly that easy visit is now a cross country challenge. I have grandkids ranging in age from 2 to 23. The two oldest live a few thousand miles away, and sadly, we rarely get to spend any time with them. (The divorce of my oldest son and his wife, with one grandchild living with the ex-wife doesn't make things any easier). So even when I feel awfully tired, or have things to get done, I often change my plans when my youngest son calls and says "Dad, can you and Mom watch our 2 year old for a few hours", and relish that time with this little guy. When a family vacation recently was not going to be attended by another son and his family, because they recently relocated to L.A., we offered to pay for the flight of our 10 year old granddaughter so that she could attend the vacation. Not so much for time with us, but for time with her other cousins. Worth every penny. So treasure the time with your grandchildren, and not just when they are infants. Be prepared for the day when your grandchild tells his or her Mom or Dad that they don't want to go to Grandpa's house because they want to go to the movies with friends that day. Just enjoy this great part of life, and one of the few things that are positive about growing old.