When I was still in the work world, and with a great deal of real authority at work, I used to think a full day was one when I really made a difference. It wasn't the amount of time I spent working, because that in itself really meant nothing, but whether or not I better served the people who were our ultimate customers (the elderly residents in the many nursing homes I was supervising) or made the work or life better for the many people who worked for me. Once I retired I had to redefine for myself what was a full, or good day. I often joke and tell people that as a retired senior, I do nothing Monday through Friday and then I rest on the weekends. But in fact a day spent doing nothing often leaves me fidgety and feeling like I am wasting precious time.
So a day like today is now what makes me feel I had a good, useful day. I spent about 2 hours surfing the internet, then took the dog out for a one hour, two and a half mile walk. After the walk I took the motorcycle out and went for a two hour, 100 mile ride in the relatively cold weather (48 degrees). Then a shower, late lunch, and I fell asleep on the couch. Not too many years ago I would berated myself for "wasting" the day with what I had done, but now as an old retired curmudgeon, I feel like I had a productive and full day. I wonder if I make it to 85, ten years from now, will I consider it a good day if I wake up other than dead in the morning.
So a day like today is now what makes me feel I had a good, useful day. I spent about 2 hours surfing the internet, then took the dog out for a one hour, two and a half mile walk. After the walk I took the motorcycle out and went for a two hour, 100 mile ride in the relatively cold weather (48 degrees). Then a shower, late lunch, and I fell asleep on the couch. Not too many years ago I would berated myself for "wasting" the day with what I had done, but now as an old retired curmudgeon, I feel like I had a productive and full day. I wonder if I make it to 85, ten years from now, will I consider it a good day if I wake up other than dead in the morning.