There is no shortage of people who've "been lucky for years"... I see them everyday! ;)
Seriously, alcohol in its various dilutions, is pretty darned dangerous. Yet safer for a fool's use than gasoline of course.
For one, the purer the solution, the clearer the flame (additives are used to color the flame for safety).
A clear flame is prone to dumb mistakes, like reaching across a flame or putting one's face above the near-invisible flame. Darwin strikes.
Secondly, the flash point of alcohol (isopropanol) is around 65 degrees F. This means alcohol vapors can be fully ignited by a spark or even a light bulb, pilot light, or a spark inside a switch.
Alcohol won't react to copper in a flame state. Some copper alloys may react to liquid isopropanol depending on the zinc content.
Refer to your 8th grade chemistry book.