I did the same thing when I swapped out the original slide stops for extended stops, and it took me about a day and a half of head scratching and soul searching to figure it out. I was a little pissed that I couldn't figure it out. The trigger fits fine until you try to fit the slide stop, then all hell breaks loose. But once you see what's going on...
You'll need a pin the same dia. as the slide stop, or a different slide stop to get it back together.
Basically, ignore the left side for a minute, and assemble the trigger group in the gun. It should almost fall in without any issues. You may have to move the pin plunger back a little but the trigger will go into the correct location.
Insert the spare slide stop or pin from the right side until it runs into the retaining spring on the left. That's as far as it needs to go. It's only locating the trigger now.
Pry up the end of the wire spring on the left side with a small flat blade screwdriver, and push the slide stop into and past the spring and detent groove from the left. This will push out the pin on the opposite side and retain the trigger.
All done except reassembling the slide to the frame.
I hope this helps.