Regarding sights ... I'd look at the different ones WITH HER, and decide that way, as well as the selection of the gun ... WITH HER.
Standard black target sights will allow more precision in aiming, while fiber optic will allow a beginner to get used to using the sights and obtaining the sight picture quicker. The two pistols feel quite different. The 22/45's have a considerably thinner grip, which may help a younger person, but will not bother you if you like 1911's. The 22/45 will also 'feel' a lot lighter. The regular all-steel MKIII's are a substantial feeling gun. Both are equally accurate ... both have virtually the same action .... both are a hell of a lot of fun to shoot .... both are a pain in the a$$ to field strip the first few times ... I have both.
I would visit a gun store with your kid and look at a few different models. I would recommend getting at least a 5.5 inch barrel. Whether it's tapered or 'bull' is up to you. Some say the bulls 'dissipate' heat better, but to be completely honest ... I don't think in a 22 it really matters unless you are REALLY SERIOUS about target shooting, and then you're going to mod it heavily anyway.
You can't go wrong with any Ruger 22 auto that you buy. By the way ... if you're considering buying a more expensive stainless model in the $450+ range ... if I were you ... I'd consider buying TWO lesser expensive blue models ... one MKIII and one MKIII 22/45 for just a little bit more. That way you get two guns and two people can be shooting at the same time. Did I mention you get TWO guns !!!!
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