Childhood fears

You hit it on the head. My sister and I growing up WERE SURE if you had a hand or foot hanging off of the matress SOMETHING would get us. Not sure why we thought it but the fear was real ;)
 
Hopefully I'm not duplicating an old thread, but it seems like it would be interesting to share some of our childhood fears.
For me, one biggy was getting my shirt caught between the toilet paper and my butt. Luckily, hasn't happened. Yet….
Be at ease as you sit.
The paper is strong and will not split.
 
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My cousins and I would stay over at my grandmothers on weekends.
The bathroom was on the second floor.
We’d watch TV downstairs. If I had to go to the bathroom upstairs, when I came downstairs, I would never look back for fear something was coming after me.
 
FIRE.

As a little kid I had to go to bed early. Often relatives would come over late and if I could smell smoke (cigarette or cigar) I was terrified and couldn't sleep all night.

I distinctly remember it was Christmas Eve when I was about 3. The house 2 doors away had a fire. I remember looking out the bathroom window watching the flames.

But it was the next morning that sealed my fear. I remember seeing the firemen taking out several "bags". My Mom said they were body bags. I didn't fully comprehend what she meant. But afterwards seeing them carry out the charred remains of 2 German Shepards is a sight that I will remember forever.
 
I was always terrified of tornadoes. Not sure why, I've never seen one even at a distance. But growing up in Northern Missouri, I guess they were fairly common around the area.
I was in a building that a tornado bounced over. Yes, it sounds like a freight train. All of us in the building were safe, but I sure thought the roof was going to fly off! I never want to be that close to one again.
 
I honestly don't remember being afraid of anything. But there was a vacant lot at the end of our street, with a cluster of oak trees near the street. When the wind rustled the leaves a certain it always gave me an omnimous feeling that something bad was going to happen. I think once a severe storm blew up once after sitting outside and hearing this rustle of leaves. That sound just gave me a feeling of dread.

Bob Wright
 
I was about 4 or 5 a hornet got down my shirt and stung me three times on the back of the neck. To this day I want to hunch my shoulders up when I see one. Also not really a fear, but when I think I've done something wrong my butt starts to hurt a little. Hmmm wonder what that is from. Don't go to the abuse thing. Just strict dicipline mostly on long the line of disrespect especially to mom.
 
I had a mean spirited (evil is a better term) step brother 7 years older than me. I grew up afraid of EVERYTHING because he loved to scare the crap out of me. I was afraid to be out in the dark, afraid to go to the outhouse(he thoroughly enjoyed locking me in there), scared of needles due to a childhood illness that required many, many injections, literally scared of my shadow.
Finally, I sort of put this behind me and ended up working in the dark quite a bit for Uncle Sam, donated enough blood to fill a barrel, and don't have to worry much about being locked in an outhouse anymore. After walking away from several 'near misses', I've learned to assess the problem before deciding to be afraid.
 
When I was 5 and at the beach (Atlantic ocean) with my family, a bigger than usual wave hit me from behind as I was coming out of the water. The wave knocked me over and started pulling me out as it receded. I didn't know at the time to just relax for a moment and then put my feet down and walk out, so I was fighting the water and not successfully. After that I would have dreams at night of a giant wave coming toward me on the beach with the immediate realization that I had no way of getting away from it and would be killed momentarily by the 40 or 50 foot high wall of water coming toward me. To some extent I still have that dream and it wakes me up in a sweat every time, and I am 80 years old.
 
Heights. When I was VERY young, my parents took my sister and me to Niagra Falls/Horseshoe Falls (from Detroit where we then lived). We rode a cable car over (I think it was) Horseshoe Falls. I was sitting in my father's lap. He crumpled up an empty cigarette pack and threw it over the side. I watched that pack fall, and fall, and fall...until it disappeared. Only then did I comprehend how far up in the air our little cable car was.

But that fear didn't last very long. Too bad, because then the height-related accidents started.

Worst accident I suffered while in Thailand in the USAF (1972). With logger's tree gaffs on, I was climbing up trees to replace spiral 4 data cable (that had been destroyed by a lightning strike). About 15 feet up my third tree, the tree snapped - turns out it was rotted. I fell... broke my fall by landing on my butt and right wrist. Double compound fractured the wrist. Both bones completely broken and dangling at a 90-degree angle to my forearm. Although in shock, I calmly sat down, unbuckled my gaffs and used one as a splint for my broken wrist. [I got no help from my comrades, however. Two threw up after looking at my wrist and the third was running around trying to raise anyone on our walky-talky.]

There were no US military/civilian medical personnel within 100 miles. So, after walking a mile through the jungle back to our crew truck, I was driven to a Thai field hospital about 20 miles away where two physicians' assistants shot me full of morphine and set the broken bones. They didn't do a good job, because the wrist has only about 20% flexibility in every direction. At the time, I never had my back checked out. Too bad.

After my discharge I went to local VA Hospital and requested they re-break and re-set my wrist. "We'll get back with you," they promised. Two months later VA sent me a letter congratulating me on being a disabled veteran. That was NOT the resolution I wanted.

My back gave me persistent, minor pain thereafter. But 40 years later, that pain became acute. I visited a spine specialist who said I required vertebrae fusion. And so they did - fused my L3-4-5 vertebrae together and into my S1. Basically, I now have a stick that begins with my hip bone and ends at my L3 vertebrae. Viola - no more pain. Of course, also no flexibility. Tying shoes is a real challenge, as is trimming my toenails.

All that as a consequence of not being warry enough of heights.
 
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I grew up on a farm, and kept hearing stories about kids getting their arms torn off by farm equipment. And I was careful around horses & mules, too (my uncle had got kicked in the face). Oh, and I didn't swim in the river above the dam, because the grown-ups said the floodgates could open without warning, and you could see it was a long drop to the rocks below!
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Heights. When I was VERY young, my parents took my sister and me to Niagra Falls/Horseshoe Falls (from Detroit where we then lived). We rode a cable car over (I think it was) Horseshoe Falls. I was sitting in my father's lap. He crumpled up an empty cigarette pack and threw it over the side. I watched that pack fall, and fall, and fall...until it disappeared. Only then did I comprehend how far up in the air our little cable car was.

But that fear didn't last very long. Too bad, because then the height-related accidents started.

Worst accident I suffered while in Thailand in the USAF (1972). With logger's tree gaffs on, I was climbing up trees to replace spiral 4 data cable (that had been destroyed by a lightning strike). About 15 feet up my third tree, the tree snapped - turns out it was rotted. I fell... broke my fall by landing on my butt and right wrist. Double compound fractured the wrist. Both bones completely broken and dangling at a 90-degree angle to my forearm. Although in shock, I calmly sat down, unbuckled my gaffs and used one as a splint for my broken wrist. [I got no help from my comrades, however. Two threw up after looking at my wrist and the third was running around trying to raise anyone on our walky-talky.]

There were no US military/civilian medical personnel within 100 miles. So, after walking a mile through the jungle back to our crew truck, I was driven to a Thai field hospital about 20 miles away where two physicians' assistants shot me full of morphine and set the broken bones. They didn't do a good job, because the wrist has only about 20% flexibility in every direction. At the time, I never had my back checked out. Too bad.

After my discharge I went to local VA Hospital and requested they re-break and re-set my wrist. "We'll get back with you," they promised. Two months later VA sent me a letter congratulating me on being a disabled veteran. That was NOT the resolution I wanted.

My back gave me persistent, minor pain thereafter. But 40 years later, that pain became acute. I visited a spine specialist who said I required vertebrae fusion. And so they did - fused my L3-4-5 vertebrae together and into my S1. Basically, I now have a stick that begins with my hip bone and ends at my L3 vertebrae. Viola - no more pain. Of course, also no flexibility. Tying shoes is a real challenge, as is trimming my toenails.

All that as a consequence of not being warry enough of heights.
Thanks for your service.
 
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