Reflections of 2010

mb111263

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Though we don't comprehend it as children, the years honestly do go by faster the older we get. 2010 seems to have gone by in a blur, yet there are moments that are as vivid in my mind as if they were happening right now as I type this.

The year began with me running back and forth to hospitals and nursing facilities following my mother's stroke. Those six months between her stroke and eventual passing, I spent very little time at my workbench.

My brother, Fermin Garza (and many other dear friends), was close by me in spirit during that trying time. After mom's passing, he and many others helped create a tribute to my mother in the form of The Mary Gun; a 4" S&W model 29. This special sixgun is a treasured heirloom that will be passed down to my boys. The ivory stocks, carved in the pattern of Elmer Keith's by Bob Leskovec, feature the initials MB for my mother.

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Being a sixgunner is a rare thing, and finding others close by with the same interest is difficult at best! I was blessed with becoming friends with fellow sixgunner Jeff Hoover. During my mother's illness, Jeff, having gone through his own mother's passing just a short time before my mother's stroke, made daily calls to offer encouragement and advice. Jeff lives just a few short hours from me, and I had the pleasure of meeting him in person last year. Jeff presented me with a challenge coin and a pocket knife for both me and my son Ethan. Over the next few months, other packages would arrive with Jeff's return address. Bullets, books and American Rifleman magazines with articles by Elmer Keith made their way to me. To say that Jeff is large is an understatement! His physical size is equally matched, if not surpassed, by his generosity. I nicknamed him ‘Tank’, (although Fermin pronounces it ‘Stank’!), and I think it fits!

Late in the summer, I visited our own Dick Thompson and Steve Call. Since my stay was going to be short, Dick had a fast and furious schedule planned for us that included a trip to the Freedom Arms factory in Freedom, Wyoming, and a drive to Boise for a visit with Mr. and Mrs. John Taffin, and then a few hours were spent in awe at the Elmer Keith Museum. We did a lot of sightseeing, shooting and eating! Getting to meet Steve and Betty was a true highlight! Steve presented me with a Callshot Fan Club hat and a walking stick he had made, both the perfect companion to the Callshot vest that Tank sent me before the trip! A few days after I arrived, Tank and Samantha flew in for a visit with the famous duo of Soda Springs! We spent our only full day together shooting and sightseeing, which ended with me getting to take a badger with the Mary Gun. What a great ending to an extra special trip! As Dick said, it was the icing on the cake!

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Tank invited me to his home in Maryland for the opening day of their deer season. The Friday after Thanksgiving, I loaded my truck up and made the 3 ½ hour drive to Poolesville. Jeff, his wife Camille and daughter Samantha made me feel right at home. I was treated to a fantastic dutch oven dinner, complete with huckleberry cobbler dessert! The following day found us in the woods for 12 hours. We watched the sun rise and set, and enjoyed the tranquility of time in the woods with a good sixgun. While the deer I saw were too far for me and the Mary Gun, it was a most memorable day! Tank taking a doe with his 475 Linebaugh made it all the more special!

A chapter of my life ended in 2010, yet so many others began. Through the blur of time, snapshots of moments are burned into your memory forever. I look forward to 2011; plans are already made with Dick, Fermin, Tank, good friend Glenn Swaggart and others. Tales will be told, sixguns will be shot and memories will be made. I am spending the start of this new year working on my backlog, and to all my customers who are patiently waiting, THANK YOU!

Back in August, while having lunch with Dick and JT, Mr. Taffin turned to me and mentioned that he had heard of my mother’s passing. He said “you never get over it”, and spoke of his own experience. To that, I must totally agree.
When my father passed away, I wrote a poem, which my mother kept on the wall of her home until her passing. It took me longer to do the same for my mother, but I knew when the time was right, the words would come to me.

As this new year rushes to a blur, it takes just the blink of an eye to find myself back at 11:39pm, February 11th, 2010…

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Although the lose of your mother was terrible blow, you are a wise man to be able to recognize the good things the Lord put before you also. Have a great 2011 and may God bless you and your family. Wade
 
Mike, the vicissitudes of life can be darn tough ! The loss of a "Mom" is a void that I think will never be quite filled. I, like others, still deal with it. The old cliche, time heals all wounds is true. Thru time, the events that 'trigger' those heart felt pangs, cease to be less often. Good times, good friends, good memories help alot.

Mike, you're about one of the nicest people I know. Your kindness brings out the best in people. Lets hope we can fill that memory box with good times, and memories in the future . 2011 indead, seems to be filled with fun adventures. Lifes about ups and downs, we just need to appreciate and cherish what is good ! With friends like you, that isn't hard to do at all !

Great write up and a nice peek into a slice of your world. When you get down to it, we're all about alike as a bunch of eggs.
 
From experience, Mike, I can tell you that time does heal. The wife and I lost our oldest daughter in May,1990, a couple days shy of her 20th birthday. You never forget, but the pain does subside.

May your new year be blessed and full!
 
Mike,, while we've never met,, I feel as if I have a small peek into how you feel. I too have had similar pleasures you spoke of,, and I too lost my mother not too long ago. (Nov 2008.) I have had an all too short visit with Dick, Steve, Jeff, and Glen. I have marveled at your fine work with leather. So,, as the new year comes,, and time creeps by,, yes,, it will heal a lot of hurt,,, but as noted,, you never quite get over the loss of your mother,, or even your father. I have found myself repeating words of wisdom passed to me from both of my parents. I hope to enrich others lives as those words helped mine. So,, with a smile in your heart of love,, and a gift of sharing,, I know your mom went peacefully to meet the Lord knowing she'd raised a loving son.
Thanks for sharing a part of your life,, that in our own way,, many of us can relate to.
 
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Very honest & touching write up Mike & yes 2010 is one to remember. Fermin has often said that Mike should have been a Priest & no doubt he could have been but I for one am sure glad he didn't. I've never heard of a Priest making gun leather & I just can't imagine not having all these beautiful handmade, world class holsters I cherish everyday.
Also in 2010 the extended family of Ruger forum members has continued to grow, I think all can agree its a pretty special fraternity we have, both men & women from all walks of life getting along so well & sharing not only life's experiences but many times giving each other guns, leather, knives, hats, bullets, brass and gun parts....along with a big dose of good natured BS!
I remember well the prank several members pulled on me when I was given a Ruger Bisley 44 special, I'll admit it I was so overcome I cried & I'm not afraid to say that. Thanks guys, it will be cherished all my life.
Even before I knew many here on the fourm I was hanging out with one of the most unique guys on planet earth, a very close friend who has enriched not only my life but many others here as well. His honesty, sharing, caring & quick sense of humor have helped entertain many new found friends even as he deals with one of the most demanding callings life could place on one individual & that is the 24/7 caring for his eternal companion.
Steve & Betty Call, in their own little way has made this a better place for all of us & whether its 2010 or 2050 that will never change. Steve (Cantshoot) was also the recepient of a special gun from several special friends, along with a holster & a custom knife & as his chest swelled & his eyes watered I could actually see a guy that would never be the same & I mean that in a good way, he realized that he had a whole country full of true friends & to him & Betty that is priceless.
I for one wish I could meet everyone that belongs to the Ruger forum family, Flatgate has made it a very special place to hang out, thanks Carl!
Best of 2011 to all, may every shot fly straight & true from your Ruger sixgun!

Dick
 
Nice story and pictures, Mike. Betty and I were happy to meet you last summer. We needed more time next visit. I will remember shooting 412 yards at the water hole in Dry Valley. We need to take Fermin up there and check him out. :wink: We will have some great memories in 2011 so keep your camera handy. Steve & Betty
 
Boy, if old Hidestretcher was a priest, I've got his trademark. "The closest thing to heaven your gun will ever feel." Priest or not, that about sums up Mikes work !
 
Not only can you stitch leather, you can smith words. I look forward to the day I can meet you in person, Mike. Thanks for sharing your reflections of 2010 with us.
 
Mike,

I am sure your Mother is looking down with a smile as she watches and particpates in the memories and friendships you are making.

~c.r.
 
Brother, it has indeed been a year full of memories. I really can't add a lot here other than to say I look forward to making more of them with you guys in 2011. Heck, I've even been pondering latley how I could go show up in Corpus Christi and visit our brother on the beach since we can't seem to get him to us lately. I think he has way too many pigs down there to handle all himself! :) I can add that I can vouch for what has been said here of Tank. I've gotten some of those packages that Mike mentions containing some Yankee wool and challege coins, bullets, American Riflemen, etc. You just never know what Jeff may have up his sleeve!! Very interesting gentleman that I have enjoyed getting to know even better over the past year. Who would have known that when I went with Dick to pick Jeff up at the airport in Pocatillo, ID that the guy that brought broken sixguns to chase elk would become one of my closest friends :) Now, if I could just get him and Mike out of the yankee territories :)

Thanks for sharing a little glimpse in your year Mike!
 
Wow! What can I say? A great story about love and true friendship if there ever was one. A big thumbs up to all of you...
 
Mike-

Memories :D make me happy, and I suspect they are what we take from this time we call life, at least I hope so. Nice post, and yes the years seem to dissolve too quickly.

thanks
 
Hi Mike, just saw this - what a touching, heart felt story. It's not easy getting older and having loved ones pass. I lost my dad this past year and to add to the bad family news, my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer right before Thanksgiving. She had a double mastectomy right after Christmas and all indications are that she will be fine - for that we are blessed. You are lucky to have developed some great friendships on this forum - there are some great folks here that I wish I could get to know better if circumstances would allow. It's a great support to have good friends - even if they're "virtual" ones. Above all we have the good Lord to lean on during troubling times - the greatest gift of all.

God bless you and yours.
 
2 dogs is right. Time has been passing quickly. I re-read all the posts, even though I remember when it was done way back then. I realize that despite the quick-stepping time,,, we have grown a bit. I've since met Doc, acquired several of his FINE shucks, and feel blessed to having met so many of our Forum family members.
A lot of great stuff in the OP, and upon reflection, I'm sure a lot could be added to it now.
 
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