I teach a youth and new shooters class at our local gun range, and you'll get as many opinions about recoil as there are people you talk to.
If you keep the stock FIRMLY IMbedded in your shoulder, you will be able to tolerate more recoil. I have several #1'S IN THE LARGE MAGNUM CALIBERS, AND THE RECOIL IS VERY TOLERABLE. LAST MONTH, I HAD 2 12 YR OLD STUDENTS ASK ME IF THEY COULD SHOOT MY "BEAR" GUN (THE 375 h&h) SO WITH PARENTAL PERMISSION, WE GAVE IT A GO. AFTER THREE SHOTS EACH, THEY BOTH DECIDED THAT THIS WAS AS MUCH FUN AS ANYTHING THEY HAVE EVER DONE. THE LESSON CONCLUDED WITH DAD'S PROMISE THAT A "B+" AVERAGE THANKSGIVING REPORT CARD WOULD BE REWARDED WITH A WILD HOG HUNTING TRIP, WITH THE GUN OF THEIR CHOICE. THEY'RE HAVING A HARD TIME DECIDING BETWEEN THE 300 WEATHERBY MAG AND THE 375 H&H.