How to Escape Facebook?

wunbe

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In one of my senior moments I joined Facebook for a lot of what I thought then good reasons -- keeping up with friends, family; looking up old army buddies; keeping up with hunting and fishing sites which have Facebook extensions... I found it impossible for me to use and only productive of filling my email with trash from folk I barely know.

I can't find the exit key and can't kill it with a stick!

Help?

wunbe
 
will power, ignore it, do NOT go back and "look", its been over 15 years for me, I simply ignore it, my one son said your account will always be there, I know my brother in law died a few years ago and he is still on there....whoa, spooky 8) :roll: :wink:
 
You can't; it's like the Mafia. I never joined and rely on my wife to tell me if anything interesting happens on Facebook. It almost never does.
 
You have to delete everything one item at a time, after you're done just change your profile name to something odd and put a fake email address in and you're out.
 
You can do it, I managed to find it in the information page or some such, I can't quite remember where. It will tell you that if you do leave you'll never be allowed to re enter. Just what I was looking for. I opted out and never cried.. It takes some looking and determination, but it's there.
 
I never joined. I'm not that handsome or self-involved to be on Facebook. I don't care to know what your favorite Chinese meal is or how much fun you had on your last vacation. :)
 
Can't help you. I stay away from that like it is the plague. If I want to know what is happening in someone's life I'll call them or write them a letter (I am sure some of you remember those things). I also don't need the entire world poking their collective noses into my affairs.
 
Not sure I can help much. I don't look in often, maybe a couple of times a day, to catch up with old friends. If you stop, you will catch grief from those who want to find out where you went for lunch. That is the hardest part. They will continue to nag you.
 
RonT said:
I never joined. I'm not that handsome or self-involved to be on Facebook. I don't care to know what your favorite Chinese meal is or how much fun you had on your last vacation. :)
Preach It Brother Ron!
 
I like Facebook, and probably check it several times a day. For me, its a great way to keep in touch, in a very casual and limited way, with a lot of old friends and acquaintances. Anyone who I find to be annoying can be "unfriended" or their entries hidden. I like to use it to keep a running battle with my left wing relatives who still can't get over Trump's victory. I actually have put some pro-2nd Amendment and concealed carry articles on to Facebook and have had feedback from some folks who I have no other contact with, and who are not "gun" people, who now are more supportive and in one case, actually joined the NRA based on what I have put on Facebook. I also use it for communication with certain groups, such as an owner's group that owns the make and model of my camping trailer, and I have posted problems and received solutions via that Facebook page. Ditto for the Durango owner's Facebook page.

Of course I take much of what people post with a large grain of salt. Most users do not talk about their failures or challenges, but only about what they are happy about. I don't get depressed or despondent thinking everyone has a wonderful life except me based upon Facebook entries. And like it or not, social media seems here to stay. Most of my grandkids stopped making actual phone calls years ago, at first using email almost exclusively to communicate. Then email became a thing of the past, replaced by texting. While texting is still the primary communication tool for these young people, social media is also a key medium for sharing thoughts, pictures, likes and dislikes. I miss some of this because I am not on Instagram, Twitter or any of the other myriad social media sites, but I do keep in touch at least a bit through Facebook.
 
I did try face book about 8 years ago now, when I got my first “smart phone” I tried FB for probably 24 hours, maybe a bit more. When I “deleted” my account, it said it would delete any FB related data from my phone. I clicked the “ok” button and immediately it deleted all my contacts from the phone. Get it? They were now, FB contacts and thus part of the data to be deleted. Oh, I was so mad.... that was the pinnacle of arrogance on their part.

My only regret is I didn’t buy any FB stock. Remember after the IPO it dipped to the mid $20’s... now look at it closed at $180 today... in what, 7 years? Wow.
 
There are reasons to be on facebook besides chatting.

There are many organizations that post their internal daily events and schedules on facebook. That's still not enough motivation for me to participate, but there have been times I had to log in just to keep a schedule up to date. And every time I did, my computer blew up with facebook notifications.
 
WAYNO said:
There are reasons to be on facebook besides chatting.
I haven't found one yet. Don't have a facebook, don't want one, don't plan to get one. Life is good!
 
A quick Google search shows that you can deactivate your account. Personally, I don't do Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or any other social media nonsense. I'm amazed at the credibility and influence given to people that many social media users don't even know personally. I don't get it and certainly don't need that sort of BS in my life.
 
Trying to close your FaceBook account reminds me of the "Hotel California" lyrics:

"You can check-out any time you like,
But you can never leave! "
 
In the blue bar at the top of your page, and on the right end, you will see a little triangle pointing down. Click that triangle and then click "settings." on that page you will find a "manage your account" bar. Click on that, and at the bottom of that page, you will find a highlited item that says "de-activate your account" Click on that, and you are free from facebook.
 
I think Facebook is valuable to folks to lived somewhere most of their life and either moved away from their friends, or maybe their kids moved a long way away. I still don't know many people here, beyond casually, so it's nice to be able to check in on friends or just see what they post, in terms of there they are traveling, what's happening in the family and such. I do enjoy it for that and it's like texting, I text, when I don't want to get tied up on a phone call for a while but still want to find out something. Works the same way. I very seldom contribute but I do wish friends happy birthday, or let them know I "like" something they did, or said or whatever. But I'm not tied up for a long time trying to keep in touch. I can scroll through and see what's going on quickly and move on to something else.
 
Guys and Gals, Facebook is a horrible thing. With that said I converse with old jarheads from long ago. I converse with men and women from former companies. May not be neet to you but it is to me. Slam it all you want. I would have never had a reunion with men from my past if not for facebook. That would be bad, it was an awesome time. JMO.


Karl
 
I use Facebook to keep track of my far-flung family, half of which is on the West Coast (and a cousin about to take another extended business trip to the Philippines). My only "friends" on Facebook are family members, plus there's a couple of favorite authors and interest groups that I "follow." I check it once or twice a day. Actually, I spend far more time deleting Facebook notifications ("You have a friend suggestion: Joe Blow") off my e-mail than I actually do on Facebook itself, which is a pain.

That, plus Facebook's selective censorship of righties, which is why I limit my political participation on the platform. Nor do I talk a whole lot about the goings-on in my life, for obvious reasons.
 
Every LEO has a internet connection in the cruiser (at least in AZ), and every traffic stop holds the potential that the officer has already pulled your Facebook page and run your "friends" through a knowns and associates database, before he/she steps out of the cruiser. If you have visible tattoos, they have been identified and logged into a database as positive identification, via Facebook.

That is what Facebook is good for, letting law enforcement and gubmint know what you do and where you've been. What could be the downside?

BTW, certain DoD players forbid Facebook accounts, and it is the "first stop" when doing background investigations for almost any HR department in any hiring situation.
 
Slight variation on what Capt Am said:

Change EVERY page you have up. Make them a tiny bit of jibberish.
Once you have all that done, change your E-mail address, or, if you
do not believe them, change the E-mail address first, and then do all the
individual pages.

Once the E-mail "replies" no longer go to you, and you have blanked out
the content, do you really care if they keep it "active"? :D

P.S. I would change the E-mail address at least five times.
Many locations keep history, and it is once your history shows
only bogus entries, that they will not be able to find you. 8)
 
About 10 years ago I thought it might be nice for following up with the grandkids, etc..it was a night mare...I did things wrong and had a phone book of people that were friends of friends that I'd never met and didn't know, etc.....it was like a rat maze at cheese feeding time...I finally got help from someone on the internet and as I recall the ability to shut it off was not too tough (like the post about going to settings, etc and deactivating the account)...I do remember that they keep your acoount info live forever so in case you re activate it at all for even a short time...you will be right back in the mess....I hate that kind of thing...I have not been bothered since and if something pops up facebook for any reason on what I'm doing I immediately back out and don't go back....my Kids just e mail me pictures and we do have cell phones and texts...all the social media junk is just that ....junk as far as we are concerned.
 

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