POEM BY A "CRABBY OLD MAN"

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Kind of hits home.






When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing



home in Moosomin, Saskatcmhewan, it was believed that he



had nothing left of any value.

Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions,



they found this poem.





Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies



were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.





One nurse took her copy to Alberta ..

The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since



appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine



of the St. Louis Association for Mental Health.



A slide presentation has also been made





based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.

And this little old man, with nothing left to give



to the world,



is now the author of this





'anonymous' poem winging across the Internet.

Crabby Old Man

What do you see nurses? . . . .. . What do you see?
What are you thinking . .. ... . ... When you're looking at me?
A crabby old man . .. .. .. .. Not very wise,
Uncertain of habit . . .. . . With faraway eyes?

Who dribbles his food . . . .. . And makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice . . . . . 'I do wish you'd try!'
Who seems not to notice ........ ... . .. . The things that you do.
And forever is losing . . . . . A sock or shoe?

Who, resisting or not .. . .. . . Lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding . .. . ... . The long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking? . .. . . . Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse . . . ... . You're not looking at me..

I'll tell you who I am. . . .. . . As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, . .. . .... . As I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of Ten . . .. .... . With a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters . . . . ..... Who love one another.

A young boy of Sixteen . . .. . With wings on his feet.
Dreaming that soon now . . . . . A lover he'll meet.
A groom soon at Twenty . . .. . . My heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows . . . . . That I promised to keep.

At Twenty-Five, now . . .. .... . I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide . . . .. .. And a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty . . . . . My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other . . . ...... . With ties that should last.

At Forty, my young sons . . .. . . Have grown and are gone,
But my woman's beside me . . . ..... . To see I don't mourn.
At Fifty, once more, babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children . . . . .. My loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me . . . . .... My wife is now dead.
I look at the future . . . .. . Shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing . .. . . . Young of their own.
And I think of the years .... . . . . And the love that I've known.

I'm now an old man . . . ... ... And nature is cruel.
'Tis jest to make old age . .. . . . Look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles . . . . . Grace and vigor, depart.
There is now a stone . . . .. Where I once had a heart.

But inside this old carcass .. . . . . A young guy still dwells,
And now and again . . . . . My battered heart swells.
I remember the joys . . . . .. I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living . . . .. . Life over again.

I think of the years, all too few . .. . . .... Gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact . .... .. . That nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people .. . ... . . Open and see.
Not a crabby old man . .. . Look closer . . . See ME!!
 
I worked in a VA hospital for 30 years, and met my share of crabby old men. And now, having lived long enough, I find that I have joined their ranks. There are things that old men know...
One of my favorite poems:


Old Men
by Ogden Nash

People expect old men to die,
They do not really mourn old men.
Old men are different. People look
At them with eyes that wonder when...
People watch with unshocked eyes;
But the old men know when an old man dies.

Jeff
 
Should I get started on my TOBs?

Let me see, how about the 80 year old that ignored the pop top on a can a beer to use a "church key." Followed by a long story of a family dinner ending with a football game in the back yard .

Or another man in his 80's that took my idiot brother's old cornet and show us what 8 to the bar really means with arthritic fingers flying.

The 3B that had been a heavy machine operator all his life patiently correcting a know it all kid most of her misconceptions of life in the Depression.

Or the one in his late 70's trying so hard to help a five year old get his kite in the air.

The old swabby with early onset Alzheimers that went given printed copies of downloaded pictures of a long scuttled ship suddenly found himself and started talking to me and his visiting brother of the ship and crossing the International Date Line. Then to a more personal conversion with his brother of years past that I felt the need to leave quietly. When his brother found me several hours later he still had tears in his eyes ad thanked me for showing him his brother was still in there.

Then there was the crusty old man that spent every bit of a half hour teaching a four year old boy the intricacies of tying his shoes. And how nothing but his eyes revealed his rough tough interior was affected when the boy slipped and called him Grandpa.

Or another major crabby old man that opened his heart after catching a fish.

I've seen the boy, the young man, the middle aged man and the old man in a lot of old men. I've gained a lot more from the insight then they received for the reminder.
 
WendyZXZ said:
A good one to make everybody know that if they live long enough that is how they might also end up...

Hi,

Kinda like George Bernard Shaw's epitaph? "I knew if I stayed around long enough, something like this would happen."

Rick C
 
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WJ,

I hold you in very high regard in my life. I may meet you some day, I hope. You and I have talked on the phone. Something about your post really irritated me. I am not sure why. I am an old man, I hope to die with dignity, and with love from those around me.

My very best to you.
 
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