That's a classic 1911 quirk not a problem with your Ruger SR1911 Commander mag at all.
In most 1911s including Rugers and Colts, when the slide is locked back on an empty magazine, the mag follower pushes up hard on the slide stop lug, holding it firmly in the slide's notch. That combined pressure slide tension mag spring makes the slide stop feel impossible to depress by thumb alone it's designed that way to prevent accidental release under load.
Your Colt works easier because
It has an extended slide stop more leverage for your thumb.
Older Colts sometimes have slightly different tolerances or less stiff engagement.
To release the slide on an empty mag in any 1911
Pull the slide slightly rearward just enough to relieve pressure on the stop.
Then push down on the slide stop while easing the slide forward.
No need for a new mag, spring, or gym membership it's normal behavior. Load a full mag, rack to lock back, then use the above trick if you need to drop the slide though the manual recommends removing the empty mag first anyway.
Shoot it it'll break in a bit more, but this isn't a defect. Enjoy the new stainless Commander!