Everyones idea of what's hard or easy is relative to them only.
Best answer here is to take her to your LGS and try it herself first.
Yep, realtive to the person, no doubt. But that other one was hard as the devil for me, and impossible for her. In a FTF she woulda been SOL.
The reason I'm checking first, is around here it's hard to find a Ruger in stock, the 2 real gun shops mostly carry Glocks and S&Ws, they don't keep big inventories. So I wanted to take my time and try and find one in stock I could put my hands on, before dragging her to the store- of course, to let her check hand-fit etc.
I know when she gets there she'll be 'oh that's a cute one, oh look at that one!' for an hour or so, and if I could have something ready for her inspection maybe I could save myself some time.
Thanks guys, tremendous help already. Sounds like I may get two!