Ok, an update.
First off, the items I was selling were a pair of Hunter western style gun belts, a separate holster & an ammo carrier. NOT A FIREARM!
I went by my PO today, to see if he had called there like he claimed to having done. Nope! A lie.
Next, I did back door contact an administrator, just in case the guy was legit, and had been hacked. I did so quietly.
Apparently, he is the actual member trying this. Not a hacker. And he's not a teenager or whatever,, as he mentioned using one of these belts, and letting his son use the other in a soon to happen hunt. (I know, he could be spinning a yarn.)
I'm awaiting instructions from the admins at to my next option.
And this; "In my opinion, He wanted you to jump thru too many hoops, so even if he was a legit, if somewhat of an oddball, buyer, i would have declined his request and told him the only way to complete the transaction was to put the MO in the mail and when the funds clear, then the goods will ship or do a FTF at your local LEO office and you bring CASH!"
I said this exact type of thing to him in a few different text messages. I said he could still do a FTF,, but he declined. I was going to suggest we meet at the Lake Lure Police Dept. And I allowed him the option of just mailing me a check or money order several times, let it arrive, and I'd make sure it cleared, and then I'd ship. He insisted that a money order did not need time to clear. He kept wanting me to ship the stuff at the same time he was supposedly buying the money order. Saying I could send him tracking info, and I'd have my m/o in hand.
I never bothered to mention that there are FAKE USPS money orders out there.
I guess what got me was his attitude in how I would not do what he wanted me to do. AND the insinuation that he might get ripped off. (He mentioned stolen money orders, empty packages, no guarantee I'd ship.) I actually sent him pictures of the belts & stuff, before we agreed on a price. AND I sent him a picture of the package ready to ship. It just did not have the postage on it.
So, my take is that he may have been trying to get something for nothing. Or, he may feel he can't trust the time proven methods of payment via normal USPS mail. Or, (and my gut says this is the issue,) he decided that he couldn't afford it and didn't want to admit it.
Either way,, I'll let the admins on that site figure out what's best for this. Their site, their rules & they decide what's best for the Forum!