Junglebob,
My wife has shot my Model 60 several times and never mentioned recoil at all. She did mention recoil on the Model 29 Smith & Wesson I owned when she shot it. I didn't even have high end mag rounds in it, just warm 44 spl but she said it kicked too hard (I think it was just too big of a revolver all the way around and she was intimidated by it).
If the Tarus 85 is about the same weight it would be worth it for her to take a look and shoot it. I don't know about the grip but the nice thing with revolvers is if you don't like the grip, there are a number of options available.
The only thing with the M60 is the weight would be pretty noticeable in the purse or on the hip. I carry mine a lot but one couldn't honestly claim "I forget it is there".
I think it is a balance between what recoil she can handle and what she's going to carry. It doesn't matter how well she shoots a firearm if it's sitting at home when she needs it. It is somewhat of a perplexing problem. My wife is not a "gun guy" although she is not anti gun she's just "not interested". In her mind, she's lived 51 years and never needed one so what's the point. She is, however, open to getting her CDW and carrying since there have been a number of crimes against women (muggings in parking lots) around here.
I just wish one of our local ranges had an LCR to rent so that she could shoot one.
Jeff
My wife has shot my Model 60 several times and never mentioned recoil at all. She did mention recoil on the Model 29 Smith & Wesson I owned when she shot it. I didn't even have high end mag rounds in it, just warm 44 spl but she said it kicked too hard (I think it was just too big of a revolver all the way around and she was intimidated by it).
If the Tarus 85 is about the same weight it would be worth it for her to take a look and shoot it. I don't know about the grip but the nice thing with revolvers is if you don't like the grip, there are a number of options available.
The only thing with the M60 is the weight would be pretty noticeable in the purse or on the hip. I carry mine a lot but one couldn't honestly claim "I forget it is there".
I think it is a balance between what recoil she can handle and what she's going to carry. It doesn't matter how well she shoots a firearm if it's sitting at home when she needs it. It is somewhat of a perplexing problem. My wife is not a "gun guy" although she is not anti gun she's just "not interested". In her mind, she's lived 51 years and never needed one so what's the point. She is, however, open to getting her CDW and carrying since there have been a number of crimes against women (muggings in parking lots) around here.
I just wish one of our local ranges had an LCR to rent so that she could shoot one.
Jeff