Ever go to a T-Ball game. The kids have been taught, begged, coached, and just flat out told what to do when a kid hits the ball. Then one hits the ball and every kid on the field runs to the ball, and that includes the one that hit it a goodly percentage of the time.
My cousin kept a stud horse in a pen way too close to his house, against the advice of all his friends, including me. The kids have been taught better was cousins reply. When the # 1 son was about 5 1/2, his mom missed him one afternoon. She found him in the stud's pen unconscious, bloody and thought him to be dead. So did the stud, because he had stopped stomping son. He lived after some serious hospital time with a good bit of reconstructive surgery, but carries the scars to this day.
I can tell you lots more stories, but I do not want to become obnoxious. They just don't get the big picture until they begin to understand life experiences, and develop their frames of reference. I have about 50 years experience raising kids, working with, little league, camp fire, 4-H horse clubs, church kid and youth groups and can tell you with all honesty how bright some of them are/were and also a lot of the dumb things they did.
My very best to you and yours, but do not tempt fate. Or, as the old folks used to say, " The Lord looks after those who look after themselves." Jack