It appears to me the problems you ran into all revolved around your hearing problems. Perhaps a visit to the doctor is in order. There are things they can do to help! Might be a better idea than changing churches all the time? Just a thought? Hope it works out for you.We have had our own issues with church. A few years ago we had been attending one local body & were pretty content there. It was a small non-denominational church but their heart was in the right place. Many people that attend there run various ministries. One fellow is a missionary to Haiti. Another runs a chapel in a truck stop, and on and on. It came time for my youngest daughter to move up to the youth class & they raised the age for people to enter youth. My wife was angered. The reason they raised the age was there was a group of boys my daughters age & they were wild. The Youth teacher did not want to deal with them. My wife felt my daughter was being punished for the actions of others & was not getting what she needed so we left.
We moved to another church. I don't have any issue with that church's teaching or doctrine. The issue I had is they try to do a concert type experience during worship service. I could not handle the volume. So we went back to another church that we had attended before. We had left before because we had a child that was stillborn. The women there decided to take care of my wife. That was fine but there came a point where they were smothering her so we left. When we went back they had a new preacher. I don't think he had walking around sense. Whether he did or didn't if that is my opinion I shouldn't be in his church. Then we went to another denominational church some friends attend. The preacher there standing in a sanctuary where he could have spoken without a microphone & been heard felt the need to scream into the microphone a lot. So then we visited another area church. Whoever they had running the sound board had the reverb turned up so high I couldn't understand what was being said.
So long story short. A friend of my wifes from the church we had left at the beginning of this post asked her to help out with Vacation Bible School. We went back over there one Sunday. There is a young couple running Youth now. Things are much better there now. So now we are right back where we started.
Edited to add; While I have never cared much for being yelled at after 32 years as a Sheet Metal Worker I seem to have tinnitus. My ears ring a lot. As insane as it might seem there are some frequencies that when I hear them really loudly are actually painful. If I have to wear earplugs to sit through a church service that is probably not the church for me.