Leaving aside the Family , Faith , and Health vs filthy lucre aspect , there are several different contexts of " Rich " , which largely contradict each other .
" Being Secure " - Able to maintain a particular mainstream lifestyle ( let's say middle to upper middle class ) , without stressing or juggling bills .
Rich #1 - Lavish , high roller lifestyle . Huge home(s) , multiple high end vehicles , attend upscale restaurants , night clubs , country clubs , frequent vacations .
Rich #2 - Large net worth .
Rich #1 can be living it up , while spending everything as fast as comes in . or faster . Could have actual net worth of zero , or negative . Rich #2 at least some of the time , will live if not frugal , a normal- ish middle class lifestyle , while having large net worth , be it business equity , investment accounts , real property , or various combinations .
As to the " If I had $ X amount of money , I'd be permanently set , and could ride off into the sunset " , it's changed a lot , and will continue to change .
In early to mid seventies , a figure of $ 1 million would have been plausible . Today , $ 5 million would be comparable starting point of discussion .