Decorum is dead, or dying..............

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Bob's post is about decorum, and respect.

In that,, I fully agree. Dress for the occasion & location.

I think it was Ronald Reagan who required a suit at the White House. People used to wear "their best" to places like church, weddings, funerals, etc. Poor people kept a single set of clothes just for that. Remember the phrase; "Sunday go to meeting suit?"

I'm male, and I too appreciate beautiful ladies,, and yes,, scantily clad ones in places where you expect it. On a beach,, where swimwear is the normal attire, fine. Some sports or outdoor activities the spandex material is expected. Around your house,, wear what you wish,, even if it's nothing.
And it's not just women. I see men dressed very sloppily, or wearing stuff in places where they SHOULD have more respect for the people around them, or even the lady they may be with.
Pants well below the butt crack where they DISPLAY their underwear is a good example.

Miss Penny & I went to an upscale restaurant last weekend. Now,, while the restaurant actually allows casual attire,, I saw several male types who didn't know the remove their hats at the dinner table. And I saw many with shirttails hanging out, (I'm guessing nobody ever taught them about tucking a shirt IN,) etc. One table, the couple stood out. They were in their later 20's,, and the lady was quite attractive. She was dressed in a stunning dress, and was properly made up etc. Her date/boyfriend/hubby/whomever he was,, ball cap on, shirt out, wrinkled, and looked like a slob overall.

But Bob's post was about seeing people wear items of clothing (or the lack thereof) that aren't appropriate for the places they are going.

Sadly,, it's just another example of the moral decline of our world.

I wear my shirt out to hide my pistol. Nothing to do with style or trends.
 
When we lived in Key West, early to mid 50s. My mom came home and commented they arrested a woman at the grocery store because her shorts were so short her cheeks were hanging out. Times have changed, so has Key West.
 
When we lived in Key West, early to mid 50s. My mom came home and commented they arrested a woman at the grocery store because her shorts were so short her cheeks were hanging out. Times have changed, so has Key West.
Here in Broward county we call Key West "The Zoo"
 
As a matter of interest, i was summoned to jury jury duty some months ago. It was very specific about the dress code. If a court of law demands such respect, shouldn't other functions demand the same?

Bob Wright
 
As a matter of interest, i was summoned to jury jury duty some months ago. It was very specific about the dress code. If a court of law demands such respect, shouldn't other functions demand the same?

Bob Wright
A few random thoughts.

It's supposed to be a jury of your peers.

Respect has nothing to do with your appearance.

I've known lots of men who dressed well and were monsters. I've known lots of men who dressed in rags that were true gentleman.

I don't know why people get so hung up on other peoples appearance.

Take off your hat, tuck in your shirt, if it doesn't have a collar it's underwear on and on. It's ridiculous.

I have my standards I set for myself, who am I to expect others to conform to my standards?
 
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A few random thoughts.

It's supposed to be a jury of your peers.

Respect has nothing to do with your appearance.

I've know lots of men who dressed well and were monsters. I've know lots of men who dressed in rags that were true gentleman.

I don't know why people get so hung up on other peoples appearance.

Take off your hat, tuck in your shirt, if it doesn't have a collar it's underwear on and on. It's ridiculous.
It's pretty comical
 
Unfortunately as has been stated it is the decline in self esteem. But as they are discovering in Europe it is also leading to higher rape figures due to immigrants that do not understand the decline of Western standards.
And of course there are also a lot of people these days who should not be advertising what they have as they have too much of it.😅
 
I'll turn 80 next year. Occasionally I will get my high school annuals out and do some looking and remembering how girls dressed back then. And then I see what my granddaughters wear to their prom, and oh my goodness. That's about all I have to say.
 
While I understand that times and manners of attire change. however, there is a place for everything and many can't figure out where that 'place' is. I could understand being at the beach in a bikini and getting injured and need an trip to the ER but if at home and twist your ankle and need the ER then put something on your body that covers it. I just won't get into the spandex conversation. This IS a family forum.

This comes up ocassionally. Just out of curiosity, how many minors (kids if you will) and women (you know, those other people that make up a family) do you think use this site? I can think of only two or three women on here (and they seem to have their heads on straight), and kids really don't usually have much to do with a bunch of old geezers (as a majority of us appear to be) on a gun forum. Untill now I never realized just how many up-tight folks we had on here. I have heard it said many times "clothes don't make the man." I think the same should apply to women. Those that are that easily offended, maybe shouldn't go out in public. (My apologies to those I offended.);)
 
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I too went for jury duty once. One prospective juror was wearing a plain white tee shirt and was sent home to change shirts before selection started. Several hours later he had not returned. The judge sent a deputy to retrieve him.
 
My wife and I took my son to move into the dorm for his freshman year of college last month. I let them out and went to park. My wife sent a text asking if I saw how skimpy the clothes on the girls were. I ignored the text. Later as we drove off campus she asked why I didn't respond to the text. I told her it was move in day. There were thousands of people all on campus not paying attention to where they were going and traffic was awful. All I could do was keep my eyes on the bumper of the car in front of me and try to keep from hitting someone. I've been married long enough to spot a trap….
 
I'm not the cleanest person on some days... but my job does not really demand it. I do keep the hair on my head short. But I think what the OP was talking about was folks in public showing too much of what used to be hidden. There is a place for what I will call partial nudity or even just showing ones actual shape of things (even if we don't want to see it) and the beach is one of the few.... but then even there folks can step over the line most of us grew up with.
I would post the picture I took of a family at the beach a few years ago but it seems Postimages is having troubles.... be glad, very very glad.
 
People (usually female) with unwashed, uncombed hair wearing house shoes and pajama pants at the grocery store or general merchandise store but with no obvious signs of upper undergarments are more common than not these days.
 
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