Being's how you are shooting the same ammo through two different guns, and one has a problem yet the other don't, my guess is that your son's SA has a smoother bore than your SR1911 and/or is sized a bit differently.
You have already recieved excellent advice from other posters on how to address issues that concern an individual gun, so there aint much that I can add there except this;
In my experience, it's not unusual to recieve a batch of bullets that aint the size that the box say's they are. The ramification of that is; If you're slugging the bore to determine "bullet fit", but haven't measured the bullet, you're only doing half of the job.
Just in passing, I think it worth mentioning that a barrel's twist rate can also effect leading, particularly in certain gun designs that were meant exclusively for realitively high-speed jacketed bullets. As a rule though, one will not find that to be a problem with a .45ACP pistol to the extent that it can be in other calibers. But still, it seemed like something worth passing along.
DGW